Im going to the Hamptons tomorrow with my boyfriend’s (of 9 months) mother , sister , grandmother and aunts etc. They’re having a meal for his moms hen party. I don’t have a clue what to wear , should I wear a dress or jeans or what? I’m so confused help!

I also get the hotel gardens and the garden dinning area, etc..

help me.

I have spent £10,000 on the catering, wedding hotel venue and a hotel bedroom. The venue is much bigger for the number of guest. I even have three wedding suites for it. The main suit is very big.

I think my wedding dress will cost a maximum of £1100,
I need a second wedding dress, well party dress for the grooms day of celebration this is after we get married and i begin my life with him. Usually his family will purchase the dress for me but im not sure if i want something of there taste….. So if i purchase it that could go up to £2500 max!

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Where can i cut out expenses and how can i cut out expenses?
the other needs i will need is=
wedding flowers, lots of flowers.
photographer
wedding film maker
may be, car hire if i don’t use my dads car. which i should do to cut costs.
fire works
clothing expense for the Groom and my family a total of 7 people including my married sister and brother in law.
string quartet (live music)
played already recorded music. ( I hate stupid music)
there is a possibility that the price of my menu will increase by a maximum of £4000.
fee to some religious person reading; fee for registration of marriage on the day.
wedding cake – I am going to a really good cheap place i know, they do look and taste good.
The wedding stage. /;

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Later on for my party from the grooms side, my family is traveling abroad. That will include their tickets for and including for my married sister and brother in law all in a 5 star hotel for about 3 weeks.
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I will be with my husband then but i don’t know what is going to happen.

Help me manage this and how/ where shall i cut down? any suggestions? or good ideas?

I am thinking of having a chat about this with my mum, i need to look for good prices and i think the best is to keep prices as cheapest as possible.
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The three wedding party suites are included together, i have 250 guest the venue is for 400 guest.
i might look at the other suits. the price for £10500 also includes the wedding catering, the dishes, the full service package, events manager who does and offers everything. And the entire wedding food and drinks.

why in this section? cause im a lesbian.

im 15, my brother is 31. (different dads, same mum)
i see him about 5 imes a year, maybe less (he lives 15 mins walk / 5 mins drive away from my house)
and when i do see him, sometimes he cant even manage the word hello, so ignores me. when i see him i feel really awquard around him
he has a daughter, 1 n a half years old, dont see he either.
hes quite a stuck up and nasty person, racist, homophobic, obessed with looks – has to have designer clothing, his child (i personally think is a fashion acsessory, because his best friends had a baby together, and my bro has to be better than everone), his lady, tiny little blonde, had a boob job in november.. list goes on and on…

hes getting married next year, him n his lady have spent £13000 on the wedding already, going to be an over the top wedding. 7 bridesmaides… rings that cost £3000… food per person is £70…
not the sorta wedin id enjoy.
basically, i have no relationship with my brother, i dont like the person he is, and i dont think he likes me either, so i do not want to go to his wedding. but my family still think i should go, because hes family.

but for your weddng, arent you meant to invite people you care about? people who are important to you?

i hate the idea of going cause hes family, i should go cause i care about/love him, and he should invite me for them reasons too. me going would be so fake, as i know he wouldnt want me there.

my family reckon i need to go cause things will get difficult for my mum and him, but shouldnt he be grown up enough to realise that being funny with our mum cause we dont get on is silly and childish?

i dont know what to do for the best, what do you think i should do?

as the majority know me and sexy evertonian are having the wedding of the year – we’re yahoos answer to posh and becks (god help us!!)
Where will we head to for the hen party girls?? All ideas welcome!
xx
David T – I have that mentally stored and filed away – maybe you could be the stripper???xx

We’ve been watching Fair City for a while now and we’re getting sick of it. We never liked it anyway but it’s even worse now with that Paul only just getting married but ends up having it off with his dead wife’s sister who’s also a lesbian in a hotel room while his new wife’s mother was only killed a few months ago in the sidecar of a motorbike on her wedding day.
Then you’ve got this Mayor of Carrickstown rubbish as well. It’s enough to make you want to go to bed and never get up.

They should bring back Glenroe and git rid of Fair City. We still miss Biddy, Miley, Dick, Mary and Teasie. Sher Denisheen must be in her 20s by now. Sunday nights at half eight have never been the same without it.
Mel: Sher we used to have dreams about Maggie Riordan. That Benji was a lucky fecker.