This might sound really bad, because I know planning a wedding is a lot of stress and everyone wants it to be perfect. I understand that a lot of people are forking out the money on their own now a days, which if that’s the case, I can see people being upset when their parents etc chime in. Mostly because it usually ends up costing more when people chime in.

But if parents or family etc. are paying for the whole wedding, dress, food, venue, everything. Do you think its really fair for the bride and the groom to completely ignore their suggestions? I understand the couple still wants their own style, colors etc. But I’m thinking to not compromise at all, and throw up the “Its my wedding and I’ll do what I want to do” motto, is kind of rude when other people are paying for what they want. I hope that makes sense.

What does everyone here think?
I’m already married. lol I just read answers on here a lot, and that’s a popular answer. So I wanted to see if money made a difference to people.
I wouldn’t compare it to a gift card, because there is a huge difference in amount. Its $100 vs a few thousand possibly way more like $50,000. Yes they should look at it as a gift, but if they are paying what is extra guests, or an extra meal on the menu really going to do?

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